Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Talk about wearing spandex, where to buy spandex, and how to care for your spandex collection!
Forum rules
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted.
  • Advertisement

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Fri Oct 07, 2011 2:50 am

Superhero utility belt, lol...

I was, of course, kidding. But I don't "do" fanny packs just the same. I like sticking the plastic gym pass on my keys into the elastic of the leg and then just carrying my wallet/phone. No biggy.
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Oct 09, 2011 10:32 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:30 am

Worn my Lycra small bikini at the pool seen a cute Asian wearing a one piece which looked like a two piece bikini. She was with her mom the girl was very hot. It looks like the mom is trying to get daughter a man seeing they are looking talking to single guys who never shut up.
While another couple who wears small Lycra swimwear notice me. Now the older woman who use to wear a tiny bikini wears a revealing one piece but looks as a two piece bikini. Usually she leaves the pool just as I show up in the late evening. Now she sticks around longer swimming and always notices me in different bikini bottoms I wear. Even the hubby checks out my swimwear I'm the shower as I arrive.

Most of the time if not always nobody bats an eye at my swim bikini. They look and notice once but nobody stares or gives me stink eye at all. The young Asian girl noticed me swimming at first stared at me while she walked along the pool deck but thats not unusual.

Also noticed a couple who use to wear speedo and bikini swimwear now cover up with modest shorts. This Asian couple I always seen wearing the same speedo and bikini now wear loose boxer shorts and long burmuda shorts. To me it looks like the female doesn't want to wear bikini's anymore for whatever reason. Now the guy isn't wearing his speedo going to some knee high shorts.
They never talk to anyone including me and the women doesn't look at anyone including me. I don't know if the couple changing into more modest swimwear seeing me I'm the cause of it. When they see me
In small bikini the women may think I'm revealing to much and thus thinks she is too, changing into loose boxers.
While she has influence of her hubby she buys and makes him wear dork shorts at the pool. What could have made the change seeing me all the time in small stylish bikini's that are different all the time. Or the women once stared at me while I swam in the pool and thought I show to much skin similar to them, so they decided to compare themselves to me and not like the look so much. Anyone have a guess why? Even though they wore bikini themselves for long time. My guess is the swimwear finally got worn out. But o hardly believe it there is something more to there decision of modest clothing, it's not like they are overweight or old.

At least there's older couple that wears small swimwear like me but see how long that lasts be it there regulars also at the pool. At least the women has more then one bikini to wear or one sexy looking one piece swimsuit. Maybe recently her staying longer at the pool has something to do of seeing me in my different swimwear. Who knows?
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Oct 09, 2011 10:32 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby chrisaerobics » Wed Oct 12, 2011 11:32 am

I was interested in taking ballet, tap & jazz dance classes. Whenever I called to find out about them, or talked to my girlfriends who take the classes about them, I always asked them about the dress code, and I also ask if I can wear a leotard with tights underneath. All the ladies I speak with supported me and loved the idea! :)

I ask this because it feels good and it feels comfortable, and also because it keeps my tights from falling, plus I love the look, as I grew up with it!

I ask the same thing whenever there's an 80s themed aerobics class someplace for the same exact reasons, and they also loved to see me wearing that look! :)

Also, not to mention that I'm such a sweetheart and have a warm and nice personality toward them! :)

- Chris

For this post the author chrisaerobics thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:31 pm)
Rating: 7.69%
 
chrisaerobics
Lurker
 
Posts: 8
Joined: Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:52 pm
Location: NJ
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 9 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby tightnshiny » Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:49 pm

I'm a new member to this forum (been a fan of the site for ages, though), so please consider this my introductory post. Oh, and "Hi" all around ;)

Apart from loving to see women in lycra I also love wearing the material myself. I'm a straight guy and I don't intend to let social norms get too much in the way of my clothing preferences, and don't mind if some people think I'm gay (which I'm sure some do; see below). My taste is very simple: Dark color (black, grey, navy, dark red, ...) shiny full-length tights combined with some kind of windbreaker or fleece jacket/sweater and "sporty" shoes, like training/workout shoes or light hiking boots. While women can wear almost anything with their leggings, I think the "sporty" look works best for men. I also try to keep it masculine, so no candy colors or ballet slippers ;)

Wearing spandex at home isn't enough for me, so I regularly get a kick out of wearing tights in public, e.g. to go shopping. While exhibitionism is definitely part of my motivation, it's only to the extent that I can be reasonably sure that the majority of people don't feel offended by my attire and that maybe some people even like what they see. If I got the impression that I was upsetting or seriously grossing out the majority of people that see me, I'd wear regular jeans. So I try not to overdo it. The jacket/sweater doesn't cover my butt and bulge, but I'm not sporting what forum member Dynamic Torque would probably call the "cock and balls shrinkwrap show" ;) There is clearly a visible bulge, but I don't try to make it jump out at everyone and you can't really see very much detail. The dark colors of my tights also help keep things "civilized".

My general experience has been that the majority of people do tend to look at me, or, more precisely, my tights. Seeing a man in black shiny tights just isn't something you see every day in a non-sports context, and the fact that I'm very tall at just over 6'7" probably also plays a part. But after the initial look most people just get back to minding their own business.

Of those people that do show noticeable reactions, there are great differences depending on the age group. Teenage boys usually giggle hysterically, as do the girls (along with the customary mouth-covering and whispering to their friends). Groups of older male teenagers usually first stare in disbelief and then try to somehow react in a way that will keep them looking cool in front of their buddies (I'm pretty sure the word "gay" comes up frequently). Occasionally I get a snide comment along the lines of "Nice pants...", but that's the exception. Most of the time they just stay silent and try to pretend to look elsewhere and burst into full laughter after I've passed them. I used to fear these reactions but now I really don't care that much anymore. I guess it's just typical behaviour for boys that age.

The twenty-somethings are usually the most laid-back. If they react at all, they usually just smile and maybe laugh a bit. The other day I was walking towards an escalator in a mall and there was a girl, 25 or so, maybe, who was chatting with a boy. She spotted me when I was about 30 ft away and I could hear her say "Whoa, whoa, whoa." to the boy. Not with her mouth gaping wide open or anything, just to stop him from talking and make him aware of me. I passed them and stepped onto the escalator and I could hear a short giggle that sounded like a combination of surprise and amusement.

Younger adults (30s and 40s) are usually pretty interesting in their reactions. Most of them initially look simply because they're seeing something unusual. After that initial glance, some quickly turn their eyes away, especially men. My guess is they just realized they were staring at another man's crotch and don't want to be caught doing so. Women often look for a bit longer and sometimes also turn their heads and look back after they're past me (I can sometimes see them out of the corner of my eye when I'm standing, say, in front of a shop window).

Some women also try to get in more than the initial glimpse. When I was in a clothing store a while back, one of the saleswomen noticed me walking down an isle and looked at me for about 3-5 seconds and then returned to her work. As I walked around her department a bit more to check out some sweatshirts and stuff, I noticed her looking several times more when I was in her line of sight. Probably a welcome distraction from her boring work, pleasant or not ;)

The 50+ people, at least the more conservative-looking ones, often stare with visible disbelief and disapproval if they notice me. You can almost hear them, mostly the men, muttering "Men wear this now? What is the world coming to?". I just smile inwardly and stroll along. I did however once get a pretty nice reaction from a saleswoman at a clothing store. She was probably around 50 and was standing near the entrance with two colleagues. When I entered the store and walked past them, this one woman uttered something along the lines of "Oooooo! Oooooo!". Not very loud, but since I had just walked past them I clearly heard her. A couple of minutes later as I was looking at some jackets, a male salesperson walked up to another saleswoman who was working in my isle and said something to her, apparently about my attire. I couldn't hear what he was saying (probably something like "Do you think men should wear something like that?"), but he was clearly talking about me. The woman's reaction to whatever he said was just to shrug her shoulders.

Overall I can't really say I've had any downright negative experiences. Sure, the older male teenagers aren't pleasant and when they're hanging around a mall in packs of five or more I could imagine group dynamics and homophobic tendencies leading to some unpleasant situations. Then again, at 6'7" and a pretty self-confident demeanor, I'm not really that much of an inviting victim ;)

So those have been my general experiences so far. I'd love to read more of everyone else's too.

For this post the author tightnshiny thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:44 pm)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
tightnshiny
Lurker
 
Posts: 2
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2011 8:09 am
Has thanked: 1 time
Have thanks: 2 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Tue Nov 22, 2011 2:32 pm

Hey, welcome to the forum and good-deal on making your first post.

My first thought is... 6' 7" is REALLY tall, I'd guess that gets more attention then anything, add to that some tall & long shiny legs and yeah, you're gonna draw some attention. I can't help but wonder if you were 5' 10" how much less attention would you get. I'd imagine most people's take on you is that your an athlete and just into fitness. The notion that you're into spandex and enjoy wearing it in a quasi-public fashion....likely never crosses anyone's mind, it's just something we project and worry about because we know our own motives.

Just out of curiosity, and if you don't mind me asking...why'd it take you so long to post something? I imagine a lot of guys are hesitant to do more then lurk & read....what it is that holds them up from posting, is it perhaps that final realization that they're into spandex and they don't want to somehow take it to an open level?
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked: 2
johnsonjack87 (Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:44 pm) • tz750500 (Fri Mar 20, 2015 12:08 am)
Rating: 15.38%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby tightnshiny » Wed Nov 23, 2011 12:20 pm

DynamicTorque wrote:Hey, welcome to the forum and good-deal on making your first post.

My first thought is... 6' 7" is REALLY tall, I'd guess that gets more attention then anything, add to that some tall & long shiny legs and yeah, you're gonna draw some attention. I can't help but wonder if you were 5' 10" how much less attention would you get. I'd imagine most people's take on you is that your an athlete and just into fitness. The notion that you're into spandex and enjoy wearing it in a quasi-public fashion....likely never crosses anyone's mind, it's just something we project and worry about because we know our own motives.


I think it's both being very tall and wearing spandex that gets the attention, but I don't get even close to that many looks when I'm wearing regular street clothes. I don't know if people actually think I'm just a runner who's running some errands before/after a run. I don't have an athlete's legs or bum, but wearing the sports attire definitely feels like a good "cover". Or maybe I have an incredibly fat ass and I'm delusional and that's why people look ;)

Just out of curiosity, and if you don't mind me asking...why'd it take you so long to post something? I imagine a lot of guys are hesitant to do more then lurk & read....what it is that holds them up from posting, is it perhaps that final realization that they're into spandex and they don't want to somehow take it to an open level?


What took me so long to post is probably general reservations about discussing the subject, even anonymously. I haven't shared my love of spandex with anyone I know and I don't wear it anywhere where I might run into someone I know. No matter how much I like to think that I'm not doing anything out of the ordinary, I know how easily people might stuff me in the "gay" or "weirdo" drawer and while I don't care about that when it's strangers, I wouldn't want people I know or live in the same neighbourhood with to do that. My self-confidence and self-reliance only goes so far, I guess.

What made me post after all is that the thread topic struck a chord and I decided it was time to share my experiences. I guess I'm "out in the open" now, at least a bit ;)

For this post the author tightnshiny thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:45 pm)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
tightnshiny
Lurker
 
Posts: 2
Joined: Sun Nov 20, 2011 8:09 am
Has thanked: 1 time
Have thanks: 2 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Thu Nov 24, 2011 8:09 pm

It is kinda nice being "out in the open" with the spandex thing and being able to discuss it....but you'll quickly realize that it's a lot like driving far, far, far away into the forest and then shouting-out something profound; there's nobody there to hear it...so while it may be 'out in the open' it's so lost in the anonimity of the vast Internet that it really doesn't matter. People generally are only interested in themselves and as things apply to them....it all falls into the category of "whatever".

You enjoy wearing spandex..big deal. It's not like we're talking about kids, animals or any of the thousands of perverted things out there. It's actually comparatively disinteresting and mundane but because it strikes a bit of an erotic chord is seems like something more profound then it is.

it's all good, welcome to the forum.
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:45 pm)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby Lycra Clad » Sat Nov 26, 2011 12:27 pm

Welcome to the forums tightnshiny
Equestrian Vaulting: Best Sport Ever!

For this post the author Lycra Clad thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Sun Nov 27, 2011 5:46 pm)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
Lycra Clad
Lycra Fiend
 
Posts: 208
Joined: Sat Dec 26, 2009 8:40 pm
Location: Brazil, Lebanon, Malaysia, UAE
Has thanked: 4 times
Have thanks: 115 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:09 pm

Quite a funny thing happened which i observed over past month or so at the gym. Little background on this women reaction wearing spandex call her "blondie". This lovely attractive tall 5'10" blonde women i've seen years at the gym but she never paid any attention to what i wear or care any which way or knew i even existed. She always worn baggy "PINK" Victoria Secret capri baggy track pants which was difficult to notice any body or booty shape, yet what i gathered she looked okay. Past few weeks i noticed a change in her wardrobe at the gym, yoga bootcut pants fitted around her hips put loose along the legs. This was first time i noticed her hips and ass in those fitted bootcut pants. Stared down at her ass once while she was lifting some dumbbells above her head while i walked by (her ass looked nice). Ever since then noticed her looking towards my direction while in between sets resting as i was working my abdominal muscles. I was thinking she was looking at my capri tights i wore, didn't think to much about her glances over not to uncommon seeing people looking at me.
Then one day out of the blue at the gym i was wearing some new women capri tights and blondie seen me and started to smirk holding back laughter while biting her lip then turning her head away from my direction. Found her new reaction odd from her seeing me all these years not caring what i worn felt bit insulted and angry at her but i let it go. Also maybe she knew i was wearing women capri tights thus the grin, i excepted it and didn't care.

Following day, out of the blue, as i was leaning over some machines i looked up across the gym floor and seen blondie wearing long black running tights with some logo at the hem couldn't tell what type. I couldn't believe this blonde who never wore tights before at the gym all the years i seen her put them on now. I was in complete shock with a big smile thinking why did she smirk at me the other day for wearing capri tights while herself is now wearing black running leggings? Started to think all the glances to me past few weeks was her way thinking she can wear tights as well or even better then me. It was a way for her to get the courage to wear tights seeing a man wear tights not getting to much comments or stares from people leaving me alone.
So i began to think she has to be a little self conscious in wearing tights first time in the gym around many people. So i thought to give her bit of a payback what she did to me day before, a little chuckle, maybe ask her about the tights she was wearing teasing her etc... She seemed to be hiding leaning against walls avoiding me walking away never had the opportunity to give her a glance or say something before she left. Only time i noticed her was as i walked by the corridor and she stood leaning against the wall seeing me in another pair of new capri women tights. Her reaction was shock and she stopped what she was doing as i passed by her staring at me but i didn't bother to pay much attention getting to bored of her.
Thought her anxiety wearing black tights would be last time i would see her wearing them and back to her normal loose baggy clothes.

Then comes following week she enters the gym floor and far across on the other side i look up and she's wearing light grey Stella Mccarthy leggings baggy at the ankles and knees a little bit for this tall blonde goddess. I laughed with disbelief that she tried to put on another new pair of tights almost same color she seen me wearing week ago. I promised myself if i see her ever again give her the snub smirk laugh she gave me. So again didn't go out of my way looking for her but did see her looking at me as i was finishing my upper body. As i had one last set to complete i began to rest and she began to walk towards me. Now was my chance tired or not to give her the stink eye reaction i so much wanted to do. I began to raise my head exhausted or not and began to stare at her light grey thighs and tight snatch. I froze up (gulp) looking at this beauty but couldn't muster a slight grin (jaw was locked ajar) then looked at her face as she began to get close and make a sharp turn in front of the machine i was working on. Her expression was the same as first smirk then almost laugh and turning head away from me walking away, so she did it again to me, how frustrating.. :lol: :oops: :cry:
Even though later as she was stretching with her legs spread apart and ass out with her leaning forward touching her toes she gave me another look as i walked past her. Felt vibe she thought her tights looked good on her and i was jealous or taking another look at her booty that she positioned for everyone to see. Looks to me her shyness of wearing spandex has disappeared and probably is looking for compliments from others, which any single guy will make just to get into her tights.

Don't know what to do seeing her in tights i don't mind it at all and like it even though i had opinion on how they looked she could of bought better fitted ones thus my opportunity to get some payback of sorts. So maybe i was a catalyst in getting her interested in wearing spandex, don't know for sure but find it bit of a coincidence don't you agree?
ImageImageImageImageImage
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:45 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:14 pm

Mack,

(Not like anyone else is going to respond, eh?)...I say, screw the payback and trying to return a snivel/chuckle....why not head right for the confrontation and openly ask her what her issue was. My hunch is that she feels you are wearing women's gear and she's laughing or finding that humorous. I'd straight-out ask her and put her on the spot. You really need to get to the bottom of this. I'm super-curious what these people are thinking/doing.
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:46 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:39 am

Your hunch is bang on Torque because i got keen eye for reading people and it's definitely funny to her and other women seeing me in capri tights, especially. Heard a trainer chick who i already posted about awhile ago saying she thought i look to "girly" in capri tights. Being these women are both blondes and similar in age they probably have the same tastes and dislikes of clothing and way certain men should attire themselves. Ever hear blondes think alike? Had my chance to talk to her while we both worked on some inner/outer thigh equipment but i just went on working out finishing both machines with 8 sets before she finished the one exercise with just four sets. If i see her again this week which i doubt but if i do i will try not to stare or look her way ignoring her as she doesn't exist. Plus her workouts start to finish is maybe 30 minutes hardly anytime to chat or get in decent exercise in. If she insists on giving me the look again and i'm resting between sets looking towards her i just may lift my head shake it roll my eyes and turn around, if she has any sort of brain she can tell what it means.. Better leave it alone then make a fuss about it. If i had to confront women who just smiled at me i wouldn't be able to get any work in at the gym. Even today on the stairmaster this bikini contestant wannabe wearing lululemon black tights with racer back short top smiled noticing me as she was doing side hip thrusts on the equipment. Women have to show some emotions that's who they are and they can't hide it like us guys. Believe me i do it well hiding my emotions i look cold as they come, leaving people alone for the most part.

Found few times last month couples seeing me for the first time the women tends to look at me oddly or stare smiling. Usually the hubby or boyfriend comments to her something about me making her laugh which i don't hear. Most likely something derogatory or funny comment about the way i look, most likely to effeminate, or fill in the blank, your guess better then mine. When i stared back at this couple but mostly at the attractive women with her plump breasts and nice body she begins to smile and laugh more, thinking to herself i may make a move on her. So she began in front me while i was sharing some cable equipment with them, kissing her boyfriend thinking my sudden desire for her would cool me off seeing them lock lips. Sometimes women get the wrong ideas about me even if i stare back at them they think i want them while at the same time they find me repulsive and laughable that i'm attractive to her. Thoughts in her mind are in million years i wouldn't consider him, he is so not my type that's to funny, can't he see i'm with my love of my life.

While many people if not all have been polite and not snickering behind my back few or any have given me a second look or first one. At my gym there is etiquette behavior guideline members have to uphold and when they don't staff will deal with shamefully disturbing other people. So being left alone from people stares and comments have given me breath of fresh air and unprofessional employees have disappeared who once been my worse critics, amen to that. So everything is good in Mackland.

Yet needing to nip pick, seen some newbie women paired up and during the holiday's some have looked at me from afar with chins up high not believing what they are seeing across the gym floor. No comments or grins but looking intently that yes i'm wearing spandex leggings or capri' tights, almost wanted to turn around wave smiling at her. Most likely they have never seen a guy ever wear capri's in there life and find it odd or new to them especially they don't or can't wear them themselves. While women who do wear leggings and are hitched with there boyfriends thinking they look fine with there chubby legs sometimes are concerned looking towards me commenting to the boyfriend. While i give the girl a body look over mostly at her legs rolling my eyes expressing a reaction of, really think you look good in those black leggings? with a slight chuckle, making her feel not as hot as she originally thought, doubt it works but i tried. She must of never seen a guy at the gym with capri tights on ever before, thus not noticing my reaction to her looking a bit disgusted or angered at me as i was taking away attention to this self appointed beauty queen.
Also seen this cute girl who paired up with blondie for workout partners in the past. Seen her in the park with daisy duke shorts and her old boyfriend in the summer, well she came in with her father/fat bald boyfriend to workout. As i she was behind me putting away dumbbells she stared at my backside. My capri tights had a wedgie and compression top was short but her reaction seeing her from the mirror reflection was of a sudden smile and almost laughter seeing my butt. This is a girl who never wears anything remotely fitted or tight only time i seen her wear hot looking clothes was on the boardwalk in the summer.
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:47 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby musicman27 » Wed Jan 04, 2012 10:20 am

Hi, getting off topic here but i just bought these spandex tights by the brand name "SUGOI" piston 200 compression shorts and tights and they are fuckin awesome and look "manly". Check it out at there site sorry i don't know how to post the link here. But when i wear these i feel manly and not girly and now i gotta change my whole spandex wardrobe cause i'll never go back now. I'll just use my old stuff as fetish wear i guess! Added bonus i feel more accepted in these at the gym and more confident also! ;)

For this post the author musicman27 thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:48 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
musicman27
Lycra Fan
 
Posts: 78
Joined: Mon Jan 25, 2010 1:05 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 49 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Thu Jan 05, 2012 12:18 am

mack wrote:Your hunch is bang on Torque because i got keen eye for reading people and it's definitely funny to her and other women seeing me in capri tights, especially. ,,,,,some newbie women paired up and during the holiday's some have looked at me from afar with chins up high not believing what they are seeing across the gym floor. ......she was behind me putting away dumbbells she stared at my backside. My capri tights had a wedgie and compression top was short but her reaction seeing her from the mirror reflection was of a sudden smile and almost laughter seeing my butt.



OMG, OMG, OMG, golden opportunity.....here's what you do: next time some gal gives you a funny look, you just go up to her and say "You're probably wondering why I'm wearing these tights?'...(they'll perhaps nod or hesitate)...then you bluntly say "because my leotard was in the wash" or "because my girlfriend borrowed my leotard and hasn't given it back"


Very odd. When it's cold I tend to wear Bib-knickers, which are like bib-shorts but they run 3/4-length and with a shirt over the to they totally appear to be leggings or 3/4-length capri tights. I'll wear these on Monday nights when I do a spin class and then play racquetball. I wear a fairly gnarly knee brace on my left knee and the spandex really makes the brace much more comfortable. ANYWAYS....walking through the gym I'll have a few people look but absolutely nobody gives me an odd look or anything. I'm wearing bib-knickers that are black with a white seam that runs in vertical directions, fairly masculine and I actually think I look okay/good in them.

Mack, I know we've touched on this subject several times...but dude, why do you persist in wearing women's spandex and evidenty parading around with ass-wedgie (ass exposed) and then getting weirded-out by the responses you get?? Hey, it's your life and it's obvious you're going to march to the beat of your own spandex drum, but why oh why oh why are you wearing women's capri tights and doing so in a manner that displays/exhibits your lower torso?????

In analogy, this is like some really fat person sitting there stuffing their face with cookies & cake and then getting peeved when people give looks of disgust. Let's face it, of the thousands of those tights that were made, about 99.8% are beng worn by women and the other .02% are being worn by fetish pervs under the clothes or whilst spanking the monkey. You're wearing women's gear, in a provocative nature, in the open gym and then getting upset when negative feedback comes your way. Dude, what exactly do you expect from people at the gym????

Let's just get it out there and discuss it: of ALL the huge selection of spandex available, why are you wearing women's gear? There's so many manufacturers, makes, models and male-intended/designed tights & capri's, why do you persist in making a specticle of yourself and then, to your dismay, getting upset when the typical reaction comes your way????

I have a few pairs of Pearl Izumi 3/4-length running tights, they even have a nice little liner (just like a jammer) to keep the junk in check. Totally comfortable, more then marginally acceptable and I've even occassionally worn them to a few lunch restaurants...so long as they're paired with a nice set of running shoes and an athletic top, it seems to go-down publically just fine.

Mack, I like you....even though you definitely intended to throw me under the bus when you felt you knew my name & city location...but for the life of me, I can't understand what your motivation is...you persist in wearing spandex in what must be a socially unacceptable manner and then get frustrated when the feedback is fugly. So please, tell me....what exactly is your motivation here?

Let me be open about this....I really enjoy wearing spandex to the gym and I particularly like women's reactions. The gym in itself is a place where I can openly and acceptably wear spandex. If the gym closed-down and I had access to the place to exercise in complete privacy, I wouldn't enjoy it. Call me an exhibitionist, but I strongly strive to do so in an acceptable manner. That's my thing.

Another guy I've read about likes to buy tri-suits and then carefully removes the chamois/crotch-pad...he's over 6' tall and deliberately wears a size XS to get that ridiculous shrink-wrap and he deliberately prefers his genitals to be unimpeded (the reason he removes the padding)...his "thing" is to pretend he's just an athlete but in reality he uses spandex as a one-off from being naked and he likes to basically display is spandex-wrapped junk. NOT my thing, but his thing.

So Mack....what exactly is your thing?? Are you hoping that some of the gals totally dig you and fantasize about you when they're touching themselves? Are you just trying to exhibit your body and spandex shows it off the best? Have you been fond of women wearing spandex and want to wear the same thing in quasi-public?? Why do you wear the women's stuff (and please don't say it's because you just can't find cool designs in men's gear).....I'd really like to know just what it is that drives you...not that you need to justify or explain, I'm just plain curious because I could NEVER wear something that drew so much negative attention nor do I want to come-across girlie, please do take this opportunity to explain your motivation, approach and just what it is that you are trying to achieve......
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:49 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Thu Jan 05, 2012 3:00 am

No comment.















Feels as though i'm in a court of law. All these questions and answering truthfully i suppose you won't buy it or figure i'm telling the truth.

First off don't consider the stares or comments about me rational or perceptive from others. Ever heard of uni-sexuality for clothing. Well i may fit that description won't bore you of which type but keeping with the theme of this forum i say 3/4 tights, running tight shorts, unisex so are tank tops, running shoes and socks.

Not all my clothes are women gear but if you look at the male spandex tights versus female i see no apparent difference except color scheme, dark grey then just boring black that every brand makes for both sexes.
Find it luck or just a fluke women 3/4 tights fit me better or feel better in them then some male 3/4 tights, just a fact. Would i rather feel that i took a shit in my male UA leggings feeling and looking to see if the fabric was loose on my ass or feel fitted with women's tights comparably?
Yes, on one occasion getting ready to get attired in choosing the right clothes to go to the gym. I picked out some older seamless leggings that i bought but choose not wearing ever. Once i figured out to put these leggings on correctly after all this time i was shocked at how i looked in the mirror from the back. Remember post of girl on balcony in blue tube top leggings asking what brand these are. Or gas station chicks in neon wedgie colored spandex in argentina that was posted on youtube and here somewhere? Well i looked exactly like that in the mirror and my reaction was surprising to me "OMG , shit i better wear a long shirt covering my butt at the gym" with a smile on my face. This reaction from me after all the years wearing various spandex clothes i can't believe it myself.
So i understand when someone with conservative values and modesty may yell yikes or OMG or Jesus and yes, laugh and giggle at me. As i said before women tend to voice there opinions or emotions more openly and in groups lot more.

So why i do it is your question..?
You may not want to hear the obvious or truth on why but said it before and won't bother typing it again. It gives me a way to judge others by observation on how they perceive me in the clothes i wear. So if someone looks at me wearing spandex and doesn't react saying you look good and in shape they are not judgmental on appearances. While if you snub your nose at me thinking i'm below you living in the gutter because of my choice of clothes, goodbye never want to know ya feeling will be mutual. You could say sort of science experiment that never stopped. I try to live with this rule DON'T JUDGE OTHERS SO YOU TOO CAN BE JUDGED. While it does tick me off when i get glance superficially at my appearance i find it my issue not there's but can't help feel what i do. This doesn't pertain to spandex clothes exclusively but streetwear as well and grooming issues and traits.

Yes i know 97% of the populous go and wear what almost everyone does without ridicule for the most part. While me being in the 3% of crazy people or ones who don't care what society thinks of them because we choose not to live that way despite the consequences. Which many people feel it's unfortunate for us 3% should be pitied or unwelcome to there society of the living. Slap me in the face once i try to turn the other cheek, but gave up on society trying be tolerant and kind and accepting to others without someone yelling in someones year of the same drum beat message ASSIMILATE OR BE DESTROYED for today's world. Still i keep getting up and new people may lay in on me like others in the past but the reasoning isn't my clothes but me. Many people see me everyday find it funny that i'm fixture at the gym whenever they so happen to show up. Heard about guy talking to someone i know saying i remember mack "asking does he go to the gym still", they said "yup" and laughing continued afterwards. Not that this person knew what i wore because everything i wore back then was loose mainstream athletic gear. Sometimes when people see my face at the gym knowing i don't work there funny to them that i'm very loyal or guy with no life is there opinions, thus the smile and smirks.

People don't care about the spandex but if there eyes wander then yes, sometimes with help from others make jokes.

Heard a dandy story about a guy wearing just skimpy rio bikini taking down his christmas lights on new years day. A couple asked the guy walking the street in front of his house that neighbors are talking trash about you do you know that. He answered to them i stopped caring long time ago. Then a spanish guy drove down the street yelling out the window about something. The couple asked the bikini guy if he understood it. The man answered i don't speak spanish. The couple translated it saying, "OHHH sexy man, i want to rape you!"
Just have fun enjoy your life what's left of it. If people laugh at me ya it's derogatory but it puts a slight smile on the bitches face so what's the harm. It's not like we are going to get married with blondie and me.
ImageImage
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:49 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Thu Jan 05, 2012 3:36 pm

Mack,

Funny.....you start with "no comment" and decline to answer...and then proceed to answer anyway. You're not being judged. In fact, you're being given the rare opportunity where someone is taking a sincere interest in understanding what you're are doing INSTEAD of just bluntly judging you.

You explain that you wear what you wear because "It gives me a way to judge others by observation on how they perceive me in the clothes i wear." So let me get this straight: you wear what you wear in order to illicut a response from people in order that you may then properly judge them? And this is coming from a guy who specifically declares that we not give a darn about what other people care? The asburdity of your statement is beyond bounds...it makes no sense and falls into the similar desperate explanation of "I'm wearing spandex because I lost a bet, I'm wearing spandex because my kinky girlfriend forces me to, I'm wearing spandex on a dare, I'm wearing spandex because a company has hired me to evaluate their product"......Mack, it's absurd to suggest you merely wear what you wear in order to see other's reactions so that you may then judge them. That statement was either horrifically worded wrong or you're lying to yourself if you truly believe that.

I think you wear what you wear because when you see the similar thing on women it arouses you and so you seek to experience on a more first-hand basis the very same (or similar) sense of sexiness that you see in women. You merely want to feel and be sexy in the similar manner as the women are when they wear spandex. You work your body hard, you feel it's very attractive and you're putting it out there. You love and thrive on the occassional positive responses and you hate and deeply resent the negative responses. You wear what you wear because you think you're hot and look sexy in it.....but no, you claim to wear what you wear in order to illicut a response from others so that you might judge them. OMG, I'm done here. If you can't even be honest with yourself then there's no point to having this discussion.

It's one thing to have a fit & hard body and show it off a bit...it's another thing to show it off flamboyantly and while wearing exceptionally revealing and feminine garments. You are a man with a man's body....wearing female clothing and doing so in a feminne way. The Brazilian spandex ass-wedgie is sexy on a women and wrong for a man. A man may wear it in private because he wants to experience first-hand what it's like to have that on his body...but to try to fly that look at the gym or outside the confines of his bedroom.....you're BEGGING for trouble and then frustrated when it finds you...but hey, how else can you judge other people without presenting a visual afront to them and then waiting for their response. Really? REALLY????

How about I not hold the mirror up and continue to force you to examine yourself. Strike everything I've written above, this will work much better for you:

Mack...you're awesome. What you are doing is ground-breaking and brilliant. If anyone has an issue with you, it's their problem. Men's clothing, women's clothing...it's just labels; if people can't handle seeing the glory of your body in some spandex, then to hell with them. It's all good, rock-on good buddy!!! :)
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:50 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:54 pm

Let's get something straight. I don't care, what others think of me when only when they disagree what i wear. Plain enough for you to understand.

That is why i wear tight jeans take an example. Going to work in some tight cigarette jeans once and had some dancer chick laugh at me with her female friend. Holding there hand over there mouth smiling trying not to blurt out laugh at me. Few weeks ago wearing just baggy jeans this hot dancer chick couldn't stop staring at me smiling wanting to get to know me. While i figured she wasn't my type and had mind like most following the sheep mentality i blew her off and noticed she was shocked and found it odd that i didn't say hello to her. My test of wearing tight jeans around her worked and my initial sense of her personality of not liking my type of lifestyle was correct, great instincts on my part. Her reaction seeing me told me everything i needed to know wearing tight jeans. She found me amusing and probably a total turnoff wearing what i did also she showed signs of immaturity because she was so young it didn't surprise me. If she reacted differently with normal smile on her face and found me normal we probably be chatting together or had some sort of friendship. It shows the reaction that her behavior is limited to mainstream stuff and things i like to do wouldn't cross her mind to even think of doing thus incompatibility.


Yes, i don't deny when seeing a women the right women wearing leggings it gets my eyes bulging true i don't deny it. Must prefice by saying, see way to many women in black leggings that think they look hot or sexy if you want to use that word that are not in my opinion, while many may disagree. Sure i show off at the gym letting the fatty women see me in leggings capri's and running short tights seeing how they should be worn. Yes, i'm a guy and women have different body then men but i'm in smallest category and symmetrical to my size with very low body fat. Do you think there is coincidence at my gym that women have stopped wearing spandex tights while seeing me there over the years. Observations at my gym i counted maybe handful of women wearing tights, shorts, leggings in my two hour workout in a group of maybe 100 people. Why do majority of females at the gym wear baggy men's shorts pants only answer is they don't look good in tights period. Take the smart ass trainer blonde chick sometimes she wears capri tights but she got to know her hips are wide and look isn't appealing, no symmetry. While seen this skinny older trainer just this Monday people called her awful looking with a terrible body wearing tights initially when she began to work at the gym years ago. Haven't seen her for few years in tights this wrinkled older euro ex-ballet dancer until this week. Wow i couldn't take my eyes off her at how good she looked her calves, hamstrings, ass so tight no fatty tissue whatsoever i could of stared at her all day only problem she walked around the reception desk. Since Monday seen her in trendy loose pants kinda sucks seeing that. Yes, she to is a critic of me feeling pity towards me. Can't fault her on her euro beliefs of man got to look like a man and a women like a women with some sex appeal. Today if you cross that line ridicule, pity and sorrow for them. While i believe we have evolved past feminine, masculine qualities in 2012 don't you think?

So what i'm trying to say is knowing i got a good legs for a girl, ya, laugh, laugh i know.. So i use my body to show women what they can look like if they knew how to workout with weights rather then just jumping on elliptical working there butt. Find it frustrating hearing women talk about not wanting to get big muscles hitting the iron as if they had the testosterone to build giant bodybuilder muscles. Tired seeing women thinking they look cute showing there upper backs with terrible skin listening to people staying out of the sun, which they do and look like poke-a-dot drawing freckly grey awful skin tone and bad posture. One friend told me at the gym women envy me or jealous the way i look and i kept telling her no its not true you don't understand blah blah.. She told me in the locker room showers some women asked her if we were a couple or other questions about me that they were to afraid to ask in person. Even some asian trainer chick i mentioned before smiled at me oddly thinking she was smirking at my spandex but she told another person who would listen i got nice legs. Heard women loudly talking about me saying they wanted a body like me or wanting to look like me never clearly heard which version.
So i make a majority women hate me wanting to look fit and skinny seeing me as comparison must drive them nuts only to snicker, laugh or say under there breath sick. Never heard of husband or boyfriend complain that his wife/girlfriend wasn't fat enough have you?

Is there a fetish for me to wear spandex i doubt it but you be the judge. I was shopping for some shoes and walked in small store in the mall and noticed standing behind the counter which i was browsing around spotted this teen wearing light grey leggings. I looked with disbelief once, then again and third time noticing she wasn't covering her hips wearing very short top. Didn't want to look again began to lift shoes up in her direction not making it obvious i liked what i saw. Only reasons i was interested was earlier in the day working out in seamless medium colored grey leggings and seen her wearing lighter shade then mine, thought to myself where did she buy them. She definitely noticed me looking after some double triple looks at her. She began smiling knowing the reason was looking she had no tunic on or long teasing shirt just covering her ass like so many women sadly do. She was showing everything bum and hips for everyone to look at and not at all afraid how she looked seemed to me she liked the attention and had the legs for it, figuring she was only teenager so i left.
Was driving in my car then out on the corner walking through a parking lot, to a restaurant seen a teen wearing black leggings with no apparent long shirt or anything covering her bum. As she walked turning her head looking behind her with a big smile being fully aware what she had on and teasing every car that drove by as i stared mouth open looking at her ass exposed to the daylight sun seeing pinkish flesh hue being transparent through the spandex fabric, she definitely had the ass for it and long legs but little big in my opinion.
Then lastly waiting for the light to turn green and making a left seen another young teen in black logger boots and black leggings with a short jacket walking across the street. As she finished walking across to the sidewalk cars in front waiting to turn and i with them and seen my headlights aimed at her ass with my mouth drooling seeing she had no VPL and looked good in that tight fabric smiling with a big grin looking at me knowing she got a reaction from me wearing those tight leggings with her ass exposed. Did notice she must of layered second pair of leggings being it was fuckn cold as it could be.

So when i see right women wear leggings with no coverage on her hips and ass then that is why you wear it to tease and get people looking. You may say these girls are sluts or have no fashion sense making leggings into pants which all women say no to. Rather i have an opinion, if you got the body and want to wear leggings then show your ass, if not then wear a skirt and pantyhose on then and stop teasing or wearing clothes half ass so to speak. To many times see women wear leggings thinking there legs look good but there ass looks like a pancake flat thus they wear a long shirt only covering there bum, pathetic attempt. Or see the opposite ass looks plump but upper thighs look non symmetrical a awful look and they believe it looks sexy or hot another thumbs down and to be laughed at.

As far as the seamless leggings with the tightest fit of all wedgie included. First off i wear a long shirt never shown my ass unless i hung from a bar above at the gym and one women seen me while a older nudist women seen my smooth front bulge with her trainer. Seeing how fast these leggings transfer out moisture is incredible but they are thin almost transparent unless i get on all fours showing my ass then some skin hue might show definitely my thong underneath. Don't believe these leggings will last long maybe this winter and they will wear out pretty quick. I wouldn't wear anything different then what you say wearing in the privacy in your home. Right now i wearing my skinny women 7 of all mankind jeans would i not wear them to the mall or anywhere else of course i do and did. I'm not a freak to put on strange fetish clothes some guys here may hiding it from others outside of there homes like a hypocrite. I don't practice wearing clothes and get turned on by it leave it to you guys or girls. Only time i did anything unusual at home was recently when i was looking for light grey leggings as i described the shoe girl wore i found and bought some at sears. There cheap and don't fit right at the crotch leaving some air gap between me and the fabric. So i used them as base layer for a freezing day under my jeans. Once i got home late that night i took off my jeans and shirt and put on sweat shirt that was long and it looked like a tunic or a clip from flashdance and went to watch tv in my seamless leggings and sweatshirt on the couch with my seamless boyshorts underneath. So that is as kinky or fetish i ever gotten.

After saying everything i could to answer your questions you may still feel i'm lying to myself or confused maybe so in your mind.
I know what i feel like wearing tights at the gym comfortable not feeling i'm being mocked by anyone anymore. People leave me be and the new recruits at the gym making there new years resolutions keeping them until valentines day will have some more patience with them having deal with more congestion, which is the only problem that i need to deal with.

Nudist women that seen my bulge in seamless leggings, her reaction was OH didn't realize i was behind her as she was working on cable machine. She looked again after few sets at my package taking a break pretending to stretch while the other euro chick behind me was waiting for her client but didn't over react but she looked over time to time. Surprisingly seen her wearing later on some leather tight pants with knee high boots training a few people talk about sexy gym wear..
Here's a picture of the nudist women that seen my bulge.
Image
Does she look like a bodybuilder because she hits the iron almost daily with her trainer and you can see the results. Just laughing at all the pumpkins in the gym doing there cardio and leaving thinking that's all they need. Then complaining there body isn't 16 year old laughing to one another.
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:51 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Fri Jan 06, 2012 3:56 am

M'kay
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked: 2
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:52 am) • Lycra Clad (Fri Jan 06, 2012 10:55 am)
Rating: 15.38%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby Lycra Clad » Fri Jan 06, 2012 10:56 am

DynamicTorque wrote:M'kay

Amen! :lol:
Equestrian Vaulting: Best Sport Ever!

For this post the author Lycra Clad thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:53 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
Lycra Clad
Lycra Fiend
 
Posts: 208
Joined: Sat Dec 26, 2009 8:40 pm
Location: Brazil, Lebanon, Malaysia, UAE
Has thanked: 4 times
Have thanks: 115 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Fri Jan 06, 2012 11:42 am

If you didnt want to hear it, don't ask! You basically tried to call me on it, now you don't like the response again.

Judge torque.

Maybe the word your looking for is iditarod at least from your reactions.
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:54 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Sat Jan 07, 2012 1:24 am

No Mack.....you're looking too deep. You basically said your piece and laid it all out lucidly and clearly. This wasn't an arguement or a challenge, nor was it judgmental. I'm just saying M'kay...as in, I'm done.

What do you want me to do? Demand that you concede or admit something? Repent for visual crimes committed against other gym members? Insist you surrender all your spandex or promise to hide your ass-wedgie from plain sight? Dude, whatever.....do what you're gonna do and have at it, nobody can or is gonna stop you.

Let me put it this way: NOTHING will come from further discussion on this topic. If I express my opinions and thoughts, you'd likely be offended and suddenly BeDizzy will appear. You know, that guy who came out of nowhere, made two frivolous post on random threads in an attempt to appear as a legit member...and then proceeds to violently slander me while having ALL the knowledge of every single thread I've ever posted on even though he just showed-up a month ago and has disappeared since. Yeah, I'm really buying that noise. :?

I can't help you, nobody can help you and I don't think you can even help yourself. You're biggest problem is that you just can't see it and you don't "get it". You do a lot of really wrong crap and your explanations and rationalizations are desperate, delusional and indicative of a marignally damaged mind. I have a college degree, I own and run my own successful company, I've done exceptionally well in life, I'm a good husband and father to three children, I was president of my fraternity and served on some boards at my kids school: I'm well respected and NOBODY has cast a look of disgust nor have I created any discomfort with the manner in which I wear spandex. I'm a very regular, normal & well-adjusted person. I like you, I think you're a nice guy and I have no ill-will towards you....but dude, there is something very wrong about you and your biggest enemy is clearly yourself. I don't mean to sound insensitive but there is no point to having these discussions with you....your arguements are not sound, your rationalization is delusional. your facts are unsupported and your sensibilities entirely impaired. Much as "Chrisaerobics" is completely dazzled & delighted wearing his thong leotard & tights, so too are you equally submerged in your world. It's not my place to fix you...even though you clearly seem to want to be fixed or given some support or guidence. I don't know what to tell you but I honestly don't wish to continue this line of discussion....it's an exercise in futility and considering I had a nasty dizzle spell on the treadmill and nearly passed-out today, I'm really not in the mood to engage this further. Let's just move to the next thread and pretend none of this happened.
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:55 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Sat Jan 07, 2012 3:07 am

You said a lot being honest which shows you either don't care anymore or thinking I'm damage some way.

Are we not talking about clothes are we not? So what the funking big deal about wearing it for athletic workout for couple hours a day in a environment which supports such activities.
Sounds to me you find me loss for hope in regards to your family lifestyle. Torque I know people like you described yourself of well rounded well adjusted guys. Only I don't talk to them about spandex or believe they would care saying the same things you wrote. Go figure..duh, I know that and the folks at my gym that support your thoughts as well.

You may lead entirely different life and that's your choice and I don't say way to go or admire what you do or others like you that surround me as well.

You may think generally I'm broken piece of shit my words not yours but it's my life and I rather be doing what I like then something that will make me miserable. To say it doesn't make sense or impaired is your take on it because who you are. Is it correct judgement on your part of course because you have these beliefs. In my opinion I suggest your being judgmental so are 97% of others in your corner. To that fact you seam the righteous and me the fool correct?

Maybe I'm not good of stating a better case for myself or even I did you think it's wrong and warped anyway. Sounds to me even though I think you don't mean it that your better then me? Which frankly I don't care. I can't have you change your views as much you can.

Just another example I can't grasp is women with her man came out of spinning class and seen me obviously and walked by saying to her man, that's weird. Probably talking about me. She had black above ankle black leggings which looked like they were on a moose. What right does she have to critize me. Even though she needed to look at her reflection in the mirror and see that everyday. Find her judgement not appropiate or good for her to even question me for wearing almost the same thing she had on. She can have an opinion of me if we chatted or overheard me talking to someone based on actual knowledge of me then can consider judging me.
Would it be fair for me to say to someone seeing her wow she's weird because how thick her legs look in those leggings. No of course not that's an insult and insensitive and me being an asshole. Then if you agree with my point what does that make her or you. Don't tell me it's warped and doesn't make sense we are talking about fashion not brain surgery..

Another thing at my gym with enforced policy if anyone disparages another staff can be contacted and will deal with the problem. So there is nothing wrong or obscene what I wear and if some juvinile people decide to mock me I can go running and tell them I'm getting harrassed and they deal with them. Not like I'm going to ever do that but nice to know people need to behave and respect others and be tolerant. While everyone behaves normal to me only distance themselves to me is I don't care enough to listen to there deep long discussions about shit I have no time for. Gym is to get in a workout as fast as you can and get on with life. Not a place to sit down and talk about personal matters over some tea or a beer there are places for that sort of thing called bars and cafe's.

You may not support wearing spandex but don't call them a liar for saying its not for comfort and feeling of well being the reason your wearing it. If you disagree with me call me retarded or broken whatever word people decide to use because I don't fit your criteria of "normal clothing attire" it's an insult and prejudicial even though you don't believe it because your the majority.
Comparing me to leotard guy who tried to make up stories and beliefs only to get a reaction on this forum was funny to witness. Do you truly believe I'm on the same boat as this make believe character? Neon colored Leotards vs running shorts and dri fit short sleeve t shirt black on black. Wow sounds awfully the same thing maybe to a baptist believer who never gets out of the house, ya I can see that..
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:55 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby chasingspeed » Sat Jan 07, 2012 9:35 pm

Mack, I don't believe DT meant any ill will towards you.

I just think it's a bit much expecting positive yet even neutral responses from others (men or women) when you're pushing the envelope or being your own very unique self.

I for one honestly never think about what others might think. If I'm comfortable with whatever it is I'm wearing that is really all that matters, and I've never let myself down once.
It's not being exhibitionist, it's being myself.

I go out on a limb with a lot of the runs and triathlons I've done, picking out some pretty wild clothes that I'm sure 99.99999 % of most guys would never be comfortable wearing in public, but if I like the style, think it's fun, it's something that adds yet more to the whole experience. More often than not I do get a lot of positive compliments. I wouldn't care if I had none or negative ones, I'm doing what I'm doing for me. If it brings a smile and invites conversation, all the better.

For one of my runs I did the whole leotard over tights in wild colors, headband, etc. Not only was it so much fun just to do something totally wild, it met with tons of great compliments. And yes I'm sure there were plenty of negative ones I didn't hear. It was in the spirit of being fun and just being myself. I'd never wear that on a regular basis, but oddly I was surprised that the look wasn't all that bad. I would've never imagined it. And again, if it weirded out others, too bad. It was just clothing.

I'm not one to want to fit into what everyone else is doing or following what the trends are. Mack, I think you're a little like that. But again, just enjoy being yourself, screw what all of these others at the gym say, think, or whatever you think they are saying. The only way that no one is going to say anything is for you to just blend in like every other person out there, and it doesn't seem that that's what you'd do. If you're happy with the way you look and feel wearing whatever it is you're wearing, just do it. Don't expect others to like it or embrace it, do it for yourself.

For this post the author chasingspeed thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:56 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
chasingspeed
Lycra Fan
 
Posts: 12
Joined: Mon Nov 07, 2011 10:06 pm
Has thanked: 1 time
Have thanks: 12 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby DynamicTorque » Sat Jan 07, 2012 10:04 pm

Very well put CS.....and end of story, please
Pornographic descriptions of male masturbatory actions are not permitted. Nor are rainbow gerbils.

For this post the author DynamicTorque thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:57 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
DynamicTorque
Spandex Fan
 
Posts: 473
Joined: Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:20 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 266 times

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby mack » Sun Jan 08, 2012 1:14 am

It's not all about clothing with the reactions i get. It's my reaction from people who i believe discriminate against others be it blacks, jews or even gays. How can someone say they are well rounded well adjusted and educated then bothered by someone's rag they clothe themselves in?
There is issue if someone looks over to me and has to label weird, odd or any other word to describe me. If a person just ignores me or like you said makes me blend in with the populous as background noise nothing more nothing less just another guy then those people have no gripe with me. While the person who makes an issue of my clothing they have deeper problems just bringing up the subject of me for others to bring to attention towards.

Analogy of what i mean; if someone yells and screams picks on people be it any group i mention above then that person is lying to themselves on the hatred they spew out of there mouth. It's more like those people want the same things they see or secretly desire but somehow can't achieve it so they point there finger in negativity hiding there true emotions on the subject.
For example take the moose like women wearing leggings and her husband walking out of spinning class pointed me out. As i sat on a bench wearing black tights, she hates the fact her body doesn't approach being desired or attention getting, so she has to cast out objections towards me in order to get someone to give her feedback on the way she looks, fair assumption?

So it's not the fact people look at wearing spandex is wrong but there secret desires which they hide from everyone and themselves when they bring up the subject of someone wearing it. If that makes any sense or not?

Don't believe i push the envelope as you do in leotards. Many adjusted guys and women i know have no problem seeing me in any spandex clothing i wear at the gym. Sometimes i just get a compliment on how good shape i'm in and the clothing never factors in or glances being made or talked about my fabric of choice. Believe me i change my clothes often not wearing the same shit day after day like so many women do. One week i wear various style tight black tops and bottoms other times running tight shorts, then i chose long loose poly athletic short sleeve shirts. Then i go to my capri tights blues, black, grey's, brown of the color spectrum then the cycle continues with just different looks. It says more about me, then everytime a bikini model wannabe in her same black lululemon above ankle leggings with racer tank top which is the only different change she makes showing up at the gym. Sometimes i get reactions from a women seeing i'm wearing brown leggings and she wore burgundy leggings once and grey the next and seen me blues also noticing she hasn't got the monopoly on colored spandex attire.

Does anyone stare last month or so saying evil things hardly anyone and those who do have underlying reasons which i mentioned and are petty which is laughable compared the awful comments heard long time ago. Do i need to change wearing other clothes and people will stop staring at me. The answer is no, because the reason they stare or give slight comments is they feel i'm not friendly enough towards them thus the looks or commentary or pity that i have no friends at the gym etc... While when i see these few people i do chat with are upstanding people and i treat them with respect not blowing them off as others i encounter and know. When i do talk i notice people overhearing are conversation at the gym and surprised with our discussions or happenings in probably a good way.

As for following trends i have to admit not trying to be as humble as i can knowing it you may not see it that way. Most of my life i make the trends in fashion. Some may say i'm delusional or it maybe an accident or fluke whatever it is i seem to surround it. Small thing you may laugh at the gym i was laughed at not of my clothes which were mainstream but what i carried. Guys kept laughing at me carrying a towel calling me snoopy ridicule more so then wearing tights etc.. Now almost anyone with sense does it, yes that's not much but in my gym i only observe what i see. There is small stuff also that won't bore you with but also fashion sense changes for people also have to be made into consideration.

So there will be haters of me tomorrow on the shoes i wear or the sweater i put on they will always be, got to live with it (ill will from smart people and how smart they really are). Sometimes people are easily annoyed be it my comments here or just there lack of patience or tolerance with me.
Image
Image
Tired following the herd like sheep?

http://www.jango.com/music/Rihanna?l=0

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GmcAvyFYdJI&feature=related[/youtube]

For this post the author mack thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:58 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
User avatar
mack
Lycra Fanatic
 
Posts: 152
Joined: Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:39 pm
Has thanked: 0 time
Have thanks: 128 times
Gender: Male

Re: Women's Reactions While You're Wearing Spandex

Postby BeDizzy » Sun Jan 08, 2012 6:18 pm

Mack -

I'm not sure if you've heard of fetlife.com or not, but there are a lot of like-minded members over there that you can share your kinks and fetishes with and not be totally ridiculed by the other members. This forum is good for pics and videos and that is it. It used to be good for discussion before DT and ChrisLoganHansen joined and started writing a bunch of annoying crap. DT thinks he's a moderator or something. He's a crazy power tripper. I know many of the members, including myself, have gone back and forth with this fool. Apparently god is a member of this board, everybody be on their best behavior. Shinyforums.com is a good one too Mack. DT, you're fucking retarded.

For this post the author BeDizzy thanked:
johnsonjack87 (Fri Jan 27, 2012 9:59 am)
Rating: 7.69%
 
BeDizzy
Lycra Fan
 
Posts: 17
Joined: Sun Sep 14, 2008 6:58 pm
Has thanked: 2 times
Have thanks: 13 times

PreviousNext

Return to Wearing Spandex

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests

The Fine Print: The Power of Women In Spandex website is not responsible for the accuracy, compliance, copyright, legality, decency, or any other aspect of the content posted by the users of this forum. Any disputes over content found that is hosted on TPOWIS.NET should be brought to the attention of the management directly. Content hosted outside of TPOWIS.NET (rapidshare, youtube, imagebam, etc.) should be brought to the attention of the service hosting the content.

2018 TPOWIS.NET